Is 'cfm' just used as a measure of how easily the air/fuel mix can enter the combustion chamber? I would imagine that whether or not the heads would ever pull a certain cfm would be down to a lot of other factors such as intake arrangement, cam timing, valve lift etc.
A certain size combustion chamber would I imagine only hold x amount of air/fuel at any given time (at atmospheric pressure at least), so is it the ability of the head to allow the charge in at a given flow rate that means the pistons have to expend less of their energy in the downward stroke 'pulling' that charge through the 'bottle neck' of the port/valve?
So, how does port velocity come into play? Does this just help in keeping the fuel air mix as a suspension or?

As port diameter increases and volumetric flow rates in the port increase, is it inevitable that port velocity drops off, for a given cylinder volume and rpm?
It all seems like a black art to me and its a subject I'd love to know more about!