recently plumbed my car for FI, used copper as that's easiest and quickest to buy, i did read somewhere it is not the best choice.
I do not think copper is the best choice but it is not the worst either. Copper work hardens fairly easily and can fatigue (crack). That said, I have friends who use it in hot rods and never have problems. The key is in the installation. Support it very well at as many points as you can and keep it as short as possible where it enters/exits the pan and the engine compartment. Use soft rubber hose to accommodate the engine movement.
Aluminium and SS would be better way to go.
Aluminum: definitely not a better way to go*. Stainless: maybe.
I know aluminum frequently gets used in fuel systems but you have to be exceedingly careful with it. *Aluminum is very rigid and work hardens at an alarming rate making bicycle frames made from it very harsh feeling and crack prone. You have to support it to a very great degree on a pan and I would not consider using it on a very vibration-intensive application like an engine. Yes, the OEMs use aluminum fuel lines but they also invest millions of dollars in engineers to design the mounting points among other things. This is one area where I do have experience with a cracked fuel line. Luckily it was a return line but it failed nonetheless. And it failed within a year.
Stainless is very strong but is considerably harder to form than zinc-plated steel line. You can't easily form a double-flare end with most stainless grades either. I avoid it in applications where I intend to run JIC/AN hardware. I know you can form a 37-degree flare with all SS tubing to use JIC/AN but I would rather make inverted-flare ends and use IF to JIC/AN adapters. That way if a component fails far from home you can temporarily repair the system with production or universal parts and replace the IF/JIC-AN adapters with regular barbed fittings and use plain rubber hose.
I know that sounds like a real pain in the ass but it is nothing compared to the pain you will feel 150 miles from home and a part for which you can't find an exact replacement fails. Then all that work you invested earlier pays off.
I prefer zinc- or copper-plated steel line first, copper a relatively distant second, and aluminum in a pinch.